The Power of Now: A Lesson from the Unexpected
- Positive Self Defense
- Mar 23
- 2 min read
Updated: Mar 27

The Power of Now: A Lesson from the Unexpected
Marcus always lived for "someday." Someday, he would take that trip. Someday, he would start his own business. Someday, he would finally slow down and enjoy life. But as the years passed, his somedays piled up like unread books on a dusty shelf.
Then one day, everything changed.
Marcus was sitting in traffic, mentally juggling work emails, an unfinished argument with his wife, and the anxiety of an ever-growing to-do list. The honk of an impatient driver pulled him back to reality just in time to see the red taillights in front of him. He slammed on the brakes - too late. The impact was jarring, metal crunching against metal.
Thankfully, no one was seriously hurt. But as Marcus sat on the side of the road, waiting for a tow truck, he realized something chilling: if that moment had been worse - if life had ended right then - he would have spent his final moments stressed, distracted, and completely absent from the present.
That night, he couldn’t shake the thought. His whole life had been spent chasing the future while missing the only thing that ever truly existed - right now.
So, he made a choice.
The next morning, he woke up and really listened to the birds outside his window. He tasted his coffee instead of gulping it down. At work, he focused on one task at a time instead of letting distractions pull him in a hundred directions. He put his phone down during dinner and actually engaged with his wife, seeing the sparkle in her eyes that he hadn’t noticed in years.
As the weeks went by, Marcus felt lighter. He wasn’t waiting for someday - he was living now. And in doing so, he realized something profound:
Happiness isn’t in the future. Peace isn’t waiting for you after you check off every box on your list. Life is happening now. And the only way to truly live it… is to be here for it.
So, ask yourself are you here, or are you lost in a future that may never come?
Because the most powerful moment of your life is this one right now.
Today Is Now!
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